Many don't even show up, or bother to let you know anything. A great looking guy does not want to be seen in public with some fat out of shape nasty woman. " data-username="Mark D." data-message-link="" data-message-title="Send a message to Mark D." data-details="Photo uploaded on 9/1/19" data-photo-url="/reviews/pof.com#photo_125795" data-browse-link="/photos/pof.com" data-browse-text="Browse all POF photos" Basically this is full of ordinary women who would struggle to get a date in the real world so they join this pof lark and boom they start to think they are a diva with all the attention they get.
If a guy does go out with an average looking woman who lured him with a fake picture like pof is famous for, then he will try to have sex with her. I think it must like a kid at Christmas for them and they revel in the attention they've never had and start believing they're an actual catch You only have to see how many of them in their late 30s have put their longest relationship is under a year that's a huge red flag. There's a reason no man wants them Definitely much better females in the real world.
You want to get strict about your photo policies, that's fine, but I'm pretty sure only applying it to women is discrimination. Oh and here's some advice - if you want to weed out men that aren't serious or even literate (setting these parameters might leave you with a dozen or so males to choose from on the entire site) - filter your mail so they have to write 300 characters minimum for the message to go through at all.
You might get less mail (these lazy men now treat ALL dating sites like Tinder...swiping and liking with zero effort put into messaging...character requirement or not), but you'll find that quality matters over quantity - although quite a few dullards wasted their word count by complaining about having to do something as outlandish as write an entire paragraph (oh the humanity! I guess anything more than 160 characters hurts some people's heads these days....
I would not give any of these women the time of day if I were to meet them on the street.
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Instead, I was flooded (immediately) with sexually threatening messages.
I also got repeatedly accused (in very hostile fashion) of being a 'scammer' (just like on nll (niche dating site), zoosk etc.) - super offensive btw.
It may not be about you personally (or maybe it is, oh well). If we're too attractive - you (quite literally) dehumanize us. They steal your photos and then use them to make fake profiles.
Oh and our standards are too high, because we have *gasp* certain preferences, ok... A lot of picking apart women's looks too, which says A LOT about your character (or lack of). It's almost like we can't win ;) All in all, a horrid experience. You're a fool if you think POF needs to know your birth order, parent's marital status and annual income (not even a prefer not to say' option) etc. Don't waste your time paying for this filth when the majority of other users are free.