Marriage and dating middle ages
Courtly love denoted the type of prose written in the Romance languages.
The term evolved to later describe the romantic expeditions of knights and chivalry.
Troubadours or migrating poets told these love stories as they travelled between villages.
Scribes, aristocrats, musicians and even the clergy then recorded the poems.
The betrothal entailed the exchange of property between couple’s families.
In Germany for example, in the 6th century the betrothal festivities entailed the groom-to-be offering a ring, a pair of sandals and a kiss to the bride-to-be.
Before the wedding, the family members and villagers would congregate at the bride’s house and offered gifts that mostly comprised of household utensils and furniture.
Although they were initially used for teaching the nobles about the art of romance, most of society began to look up to these writings as a source of guidance for romance in their own marriages and relationships.
These romantic poems propagated by the troubadours demonstrated the concepts of passionate and powerful love and they also elevated the woman above her suitor.
It was not until the wake of the 16th century that the Council of Trent required that betrothals be blessed and performed by a priest.
Although marriages in the middle ages allowed for separation, there was no provision for official divorce.