Internet dating warning
These are just some of the warning signs you may notice when you’re in a relationship with someone you met on the Internet.
If you are in a long distance relationship with someone you met on the Internet, then you need to pay really close attention to these things.
If so, then once again you need to ask yourself what they are not telling you. Are they only wanting you to know one side of them because they’re afraid that if you find out something else about their life that you might be turned off by it or you might not want to have anything to do with them? Even though you may be strongly enamored with this person, do you still notice inconsistencies in their behaviors or in their stories?
So again pay attention to the relationships these people have and pay attention to the surroundings in which they live. A lot of times when we really like a person, we neglect to pay attention to the small details.
A lot of times I don’t know exactly what my personal friends do for a living, but I still always know how they conduct their lives, how they make their money and whether they are responsible with their money.
BTW, I watch some men do this too, one manipulative, abusive woman after another...
Some men and women simply seem addicted to bad relationships.
Not every detail of course – just very broad strokes. Another warning sign you might want to look at is if you haven’t met or heard of any of the other person’s friends.
If you’re dating a person and you’ve never heard anything about how they pay for things or how comfortable they are with their financial situation, that might be a warning sign. Having a common viewpoint about money is a key aspect to being happy with a partner. Even if you’ve heard general mention of friends, you should be concerned if you haven’t ever seen any of them (if you’re not in a long distance situation) or if the other person has kept their social circle completely vague.