Dating very independent woman
I like knowing that I am capable of being self sufficient.
I love spending time with you- please understand that first.
I have my step-stool to reach the high things, my workout regimen to make me strong enough to move the furniture in my apartment when I need a change, and a steady schedule and budget that I follow to pay my own way.
You may not be a necessary part of my daily functions, and you're not absolutely vital to my physical existence, but the fact of the matter is that I want you.
Needing isolation to recharge or really just sort through the emotions and experiences of the week does not have a single thing to do with you, so if you can first disassociate our love for solitude and your conviction that it means we just don't want to hang out, you'll save us all a lot of unnecessary stress (It's really not you.
Relax.)If we've lost interest, you'll know, because we will have ended the relationship.
So thank you for loving me for who I am without trying to change my (sometimes frustratingly) independent lifestyle.
Sometimes you really just need time to turn yourself off and recover from the wonderful momentum of your amazing life.As long as we have mutual trust and respect, I don't have a problem with you going out without me.All I want from you is your time, love, and attention.People often misinterpret this for not wanting love or companionship, but it's about not needing love to fill a space in your life that you don't know how to fill yourself.Independent girls are never looking for someone to fill them up because they have that sh*t handled all by themselves. Would-be romantic partners have to be secure enough to handle being with someone without feeling needed, which eliminates a lot of people. If an independent woman chooses to be with you, you can know without a doubt that it's for no other reason than she loves you and wants you in her life. This kind of emotional independence is beautiful and sacred and rare, and because of all those things, you should know what you're getting into before you dive in heart-first-head-second.