18 year old dating a 15 year old legal
Discussion different things from hobbys and interests to personnel aspirations. You should bear in mind that at 16 she's very likely to change political beliefs etc as she really doesn't know a lot about the world yet.The fact she's got strong political beliefs and so on at 16 says to me she's either very mature OR she's not being straight with you (and just agreeing with everything you say). To me the important thing isn't age but where you are in life. Also she is 16 there is literally no future in it for you.I know i shouldn't care about what other people think but I don't want anybody thinking wrongly of the guy just because he's dating an 18 year old. You grow up so much from the ages 18-25 that no matter how grown up or mature you could be for your age, you just aren't in the same place. Not in a patronizing way or anything (obviously there's nothing wrong with being that age, or a kid lol), that's just... I think every situation and relationship is different but nah, I'm definitely going to be weary of a dude off the bat if he is into 18 year olds.Seen too many take advantage of younger girls, myself included when I was that age.I just find it strange that a 16 year old in school would similar short term aims and ambitions to a 21 year old who has finished uni and is working a graduate job for example. You will not be her last boyfriend if you go through with this.
She is still of school age and you're old enough to be a graduate with a full time job... If you go through with it you will get a lot of adversity from people thinking you're a creep and tbh I wouldn't blame them. I was with a 16 year old at 21 and while i would probably not repeat the experience i can say that social norms had nothing to do with it (she was batcrap crazy). I've began messaging and after the usual small talk and flirtatious banter she told me she was actually 16 and not 19 as her profile had said.
She added me on Facebook and from there we have been chatting a lot. I definitely want to keep her in my life even if just as a friend but I would prefer to be intimate.
We will talk on Face Time or a phone call for 5 hours. I know we aren't breaking any laws if we do decide to get together but the gap is literally keeping me awake at night. Recently I was flicking through the black hole that is tinder.
I've began messaging and after the usual small talk and flirtatious banter she told me she was actually 16 and not 19 as her profile had said. I know guys with the same 5 year gap and they had no worries doing it.
I didn't said its a little weird but we continued talking, I had no intentions of taking things further. She shares almost every view I have on a political and philosophical level as well as a smiliar taste in music (mine is super obscure) as well as art and film. I know people who were 25 and 16 and have been going strong for a few years now but it still feels weird and I can't decide what to do.